Is it measured in social media followers?
Is it measured in how you make others happy?
Is it measured by the way you see the world?
Is it measured by how many pairs of shoes or hats you own?
Your happiness is truly measured by whatever means that makes you happy with loving kindness and compassion.
I believe peer pressure and succumbing to it can play a big part of it even being a people pleaser or approval addict too has us living a false sense of happiness as we feel if we make work to keep the other person happy that it will aid in our happiness, it’s all on your intentions at the end of the day.
- we can make people happy with the intent of wanting to impact lives positively which gives us fulfilment OR
- We can go out of our way to simply please them make them happy as to avoid confrontation or because your to afraid to not upset them so their happiness = your happiness essentially
just remember this your happiness is measured
- BY YOU
- FOR YOU
Don’t fear being the rainbow on a grey day or the loud amongst the quiet or the individual amongst the pack
Show no fear and create your own measure of happiness