As I’ve recently learned in life and still am that all the things we associate with negativity in life such as failure, defeat, surrender and so on are all success words.
As we all want success, we all want to make the money, we all want a better life for our families, we all want to be healthy but were not willing to surrender and sacrifice our current state and believe that change can happen or hand ourselves over to someone a higher power or trained professional to guide us.
If you want success in life you must surrender yourself and everything in your mind especially if you’ve tried other ways to attain that success and failed.
You need to surrender
- Your ego
- Your state of mind
- Your current belief system
- Your present physical state
- Your failures
Surrendering isn’t a sign of weakness when soldiers surrender a battlefield it doesn’t mean their defeated it means they live to fight another day and this battle wasn’t theirs.
Here’s an example:
Saving private Ryan theres a scene where they ambush and commandeer a radio base they take a soldier hostage, they were about to kill this soldier but they release him, and in the final scenes of the movie he comes into combat with them again he doesnt fair so lucky though
The message I’m conveying behind this is surrendering can mean victory the positive is you live to fight another day where if you keep fighting sometimes you lose the battle and die and give up there’s no victory in that.
Life is showing me some interesting things lately and damn it the universe is making sense.
All our behaviors are linked to how we handle them, each experience, each relationship, each failure everything keeps repeating itself until we wake upto it, face it and handle, look. It straight in the eye.
The more you runaway from everything in life the more its going to come back and keep presenting itself over and over and over in many different forms, we spend our whole lives living in fear, running from the fire rather than walking into it and extinguishing it.
A fireman doesnt run from a fire he faces it’s ferocity with courage and bravery giving it everything he has, calling in for help if he needs to and extinguishing the fire that torments.
WHAT IS STOPPING YOU, ME OR ANYONE FROM FACING THE FIRE?
NOTHING! ABSOLUTELY NOTHING BESIDES WHATS IN YOUR HEAD.
eventually your going to get tired of running from everything and surrender either one foot in the grave or to a higher power the universe, the Almighty or whatever it is you find belief and peace in too help you get through.
Stop running for god sakes face upto life take some ownership, take some courage, take some fearlessness and know by facing the fires life throws at you that peace will come and it will all be worth it.
But you must want to change you can’t do this half arsed like I’ve done sooo many times it has to come from deep within through reflection and tough questioning of what you are and what you wish to become and if you can find this then you have somewhere to start and all that matters is that you believe it before anyone else does in this world.
We clutch onto the past like its the only thing we have to live for, I see more and more people clutching onto their past not living their true potential and it saddens me.
We are killing ourselves as we clutch to the past, we’re afraid of loving and being loved because of our past, we are afraid of the opposite sex because our past is scarred by them, we can’t trust anyone because our past has been fraught with lies and dishonesty.
We blame our past for what we can’t do now, we blame everything else besides holding ourselves accountable we look for excuses not live we much rather live blaming our past for what its done, the only person that owns you is you, your past is gone, dead buried!!! Its a graveyard of all your past, so why the hell would you want to raise the dead of your past everyday?
If your doing that you might as well be the walking dead all you need is a shovel over the head, stop killing your potential, your love and YOURSELF!!
The graveyard is the richest place on earth, because it is here that you will find all the hopes and dreams that were never fulfilled, the books that were never written, the songs that were never sung, the inventions that were never shared, the cures that were never discovered, all because someone was too afraid to take that first step, keep with the problem, or determined to carry our their dream.
Do you want to live a life sentence in graveyard and then be buried in one come days end or do you want to live out your true potential in every moment.
LET GO OF YOUR PAST
LET GO OF THE INDIFFERENCES YOU HAVE WITH SOCIETY AND PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE.
So I saw an Interesting post on my Facebook news feed this Morning that triggered some inspiration deep inside me and its about our personal value and self worth even after we’ve been broken and damaged and torn down.
Just imagine a $5 note untouched, uncrumpled just neatly flat in its appearance its been passed through hands and Still retains its true value and purpose in this world to those it encounters no value or worth lost.
Then one day it passes into the hands of a careless owner, who shoves it in their pocket, crumples it, folds it, pulls it out shoves it in a dark corner of their wallet or a jar for that matter, yes that note has been physically damaged
IT’S STILL A $5 NOTE AND IT STILL HAS ITS VALUE AND WORTH TO HELP THOSE WHOS HANDS IT PASSES THROUGH.
It will always retain its true value and purpose to this world no matter what until it no longer exists.
So as a human being no matter what happens to you, just remember you still have value, worth and purpose to give to this world, to help others, to help yourself, you may have been broken, folded or crumbled but your worth is always going to be there.
See the beauty beyond the surface damage and look deep down for that true beauty and see your value is infinite like that $5 dollar bill.
We often fear a lot in life there is nothing to fear you are holding back on your true potential to be something uniquely amazing in this world because your exercising fear.
Unlock your amazing unique potential and share it with this world as I believe we all have something to offer this lifetime so we might as well give it our best
For some of us crying is seen as a sign of weakness were often afraid to cry infront of our children, work colleagues, loved ones and friends because we feel it shows a sign of weakness so we often suppress or go behind closed doors.
CRYING IS A SIGN OF STRENGTH
its like breaking the proverbial shackles in order to move forward and continue the journey, don’t deny yourself this beautiful act and don’t fear breaking down in front of people as it will bring you growth and strength and set an example that it is okay to cry in the company of others.
Just imagine a damn that is filling up if you deny it the right to overflow, it eventually succumbs to the pressure and explodes, just imagine you as the damn and the emotions the wall that needs to let it release.