IF YOU WANT SUCCESS YOU MUST SURRENDER

As I’ve recently learned in life and still am that all the things we associate with negativity in life such as failure, defeat, surrender and so on are all success words.

As we all want success, we all want to make the money, we all want a better life for our families, we all want to be healthy but were not willing to surrender and sacrifice our current state and believe that change can happen or hand ourselves over to someone a higher power or trained professional to guide us.

If you want success in life you must surrender yourself and everything in your mind especially if you’ve tried other ways to attain that success and failed.

You need to surrender

• Your ego
• Your state of mind
• Your current belief system
• Your present physical state 
• Your failures 

Surrendering isn’t a sign of weakness when soldiers surrender a battlefield it doesn’t mean their defeated it means they live to fight another day and this battle wasn’t theirs.

Here’s an example:

Saving private Ryan theres a scene where they ambush and commandeer a radio base they take a soldier hostage, they were about to kill this soldier but they release him, and in the final scenes of the movie he comes into combat with them again he doesnt fair so lucky though

 The message I’m conveying behind this is surrendering can mean victory the positive is you live to fight another day where if you keep fighting sometimes you lose the battle and die and give up there’s no victory in that.

Guys….. having female friends ain’t such a bad thing

I’ve recently learned that having female or a lot of female friends ain’t such a bad thing, guys it doesnt mean your not relationship worthy it actually means your in touch with your feminine emotions and understand the opposite sex in a deeper way and they find confidence and comfort in that and women if your man has a lot of female friends be grateful not jealous it means he’s in touch with his feminine side hold onto that man.

A MANS WAY OF THINKING AND FEELING

A males conditioning and way of thinking I recently learned comes from the mind with logic and analysis along with we feel and act from our mind its a predisposition which there is nothing wrong with as logic is a powerful tool and so ladies we just aren’t stubborn beings its more our way of thinking that gives us that appearance

A WOMANS WAY OF THINKING

A females way of thinking, feeling, acting and responding all comes from the heart, women are emotional actors and feelers hence a woman always puts her heart on the line and hurts twice as much as her male counterpart when its broken or mistreated and men our female counterparts aren’t emotional wrecks or messes they are just true feelers of emotions on many levels.

You can see why some men have more female friends than others and why some women have more male friends than others its because of our way of thinking and feeling in essence some of our emotional predispositions.

I for one have a shit tonne of female friends my two closest friends are female, yes I have male friends but only one whom I can relate to on that level and open up to, I used to think wow I’m forever just going to be the friendzone guys (omg I used that term lol) I now realise it’s because of how in tune with the opposite sex I have become and the fact that I am slowly opening up my feminine side.

Don’t let social conditioning have you believe that men with female friends are just trying to sleep with them and females with male friends mean the same, it’s all because they are in touch with their female emotions and can emotionally tune into the opposite sex.

I say men you need to strip back the machismo and pride and open your heart up, do no fear this as you will unlock something pure and beautiful inside you’re soul

An ode to courage

Trusting your abilities

What an Interesting week at work I really learned and believed something about my abilities as a worker and a human being and was what I would deem a defining moment for me.

I’m going to start with where it all began  this week, Tuesday evening shift at work I was given a replacement staff member due to my regular one being off sick it was unexpected but none the less I went with it, it was what ensued in that shift just a few hours of my day where we got unexpectedly run off our feet for 4 out of 5 hours, being the cool calm collected person I usually am I got through it thinking nothing of any issues.

Wednesday

I opened my work email to find a chain of emails from my manager about all these mistakes that had been made the night before during that few hours of madness, as I did I simply explained that we had a reflief staffer and it was unexpectedly busy, mistakes are inevitable regardless of size or nature, there was an exchange of emails between myself and this person and I, in the end I found myself upset and infuriated with his response towards my suggestions.

I went home from work that Wednesday night still fuming still with all these upset thoughts running around in my head, I will admit I let it consume me somewhat into the next day where I decided it was best I took a day off due to my state of mind, it was a time for me to reflect on my journey in my line of work and life and I started to realise my own strengths and abilities.

To have endured what I have, to bring my department to where it is in 5 years to where it was through adversity made Me realise I am highly resourceful, persistent and outside the box thinker with resilience, once I realised this it put things into perspective.

Friday

I went into work determined and undeterred about the events of two days ago and to my surprise a safety project which I had been investing my time into had come to fruition and was now finished, after talking to a few other members from other departments my confidence in my abilities couldn’t be more solidified its spiked my confidence aswell.

When someone tells you something great or good about yourself listen to it as they see something in you that you don’t and use reflection as a tool to grow as you will be surprised what you find out about you.

Peace Love Light

Andy.P